Don’t push things, Andante, but it’s nice to see you out and about. Yes, you remember the thought, just like people remember the Hindenburg. A frying pan is at least useful and many guys have a blind spot about “tools”.
Please, Karen, let’s not bring the family cases you can’t avoid into this. The invisible demilitarized zones at family reunions that prevent you from the pie that you really love because it’s on a table in “that” section that “we” can’t visit because of what “he” said about some cousin you have never met.
John, I was the “arresting officer” in some of those cases when I was in law enforcement. Family disturbance was the most dangerous call you got, because you never knew what would happen or who was the real threat.
FACIT [Family and Crisis Intervention Techniques] was a course at the academy and was relevant for family abuse to the war in the Middle East. As the instructor said: it’s just a matter of scale, the dynamics are the same. Israel and Lebanon is a dispute over a fence writ large.
]]>For an entertaining time, if you have a deeply sardonic sense of humor, drop in on the local arraignment court especially after a holiday weekend. Everywhere I’ve lived, the courtroom is full of newly sobered-up, smelly, unkempt males hearing the assault and battery charges being read out to them while, in back, their brusied, battered, and black-eyed female victims sit anxiously at the edge of their seats waiting to hear how much the bail is so they can spring their loved ones free from the uncaring grip of the gaoler.
]]>Well, we all get *trapped* sometimes. I’ve had similar moments with ex-sister-in-laws who like nothing better than to harangue (with foul language) about their ex husbands. Oh JOY…nothing Like Family! (*wink*)
]]>I have the most glorious picture of Christmas long ago, my mother looking with distaste at the electric frying pan she received from my father.
But she still uses it, and still remembers who gave it to her.
(Yes, I’m back…sort of.)
]]>Stella would not be interested in either a NASCAR video or cut flowers. But I do occasionally bring her, unannounced, a book or CD that I know she will like. There are no hard and fast rules in such matters, for women or men. Don’t bring me flowers; I’ll probably start sneezing.
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