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Comments on: Anger Management https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/ On-line Opinion Magazine...OK, it's a blog Thu, 22 May 2008 04:31:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 By: Bryan https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36567 Thu, 22 May 2008 04:31:38 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36567 Well, they, dragons, are probably on the endangered species list with unicorns and such. You can’t get much more endangered than “nonexistent”.

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By: Steve Bates https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36566 Thu, 22 May 2008 03:57:26 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36566 “… no matter what PETA says.” – Bryan

Who says it’s unethical to slay a dragon? Even saints do that. I’m reminded of a line in a transition from Tom Lehrer’s infamous song “Poisoning Pigeons in the Park”:

But it’s not against any religion…
To want to dispose of… a pigeon…

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By: Bryan https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36565 Thu, 22 May 2008 02:06:43 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36565 The local people are called Children and Family Services and I dealt with them for years helping a friend of my Mother’s.

The case worker was quite good, in that she admitted when she couldn’t figure something out. I have spent afternoons as we attempted to decipher a regulation or form to discover what the state wanted. It was during this period that I learned to hate the Florida legislature. I would go in and the case worker would be in tears because the legislature on changed the rules that she had finally mastered, and the new rules didn’t make any sense, and I mean that literally – the rules did not constitute standard English sentences. Things were apparently omitted when the regulations were printed and no one knew what was missing.

I wish you luck in your quest, Sir Kryten, and slay one for me, no matter what PETA says.

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By: Kryten42 https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36562 Thu, 22 May 2008 00:33:07 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36562 Hah!! Don’t let LadyMin con you guys! πŸ˜€ She looks easily 10 years younger than she is! Other women want to rip her hair out when they find out! :b LOL

Anyway… isn’t the maxim: “Men have ages. Women have Birthdays!” LOL

Oh! That reminds of another I heard (in the USA I think): “A woman is as old as she feels, a man is as old as the woman he’s feeling!” LOL

Hmmm. I must be in a good mood today. πŸ˜‰ Dunno why! I have to go fight the forces of evil!! I have an appointment with the Gov department designed to make life impossible for al,l Centrelink! Kinda like the US Dep’t of Social Security. I tell you… bureaucrats are the TRUE enemy of man!

Everyone is different and there is no single solution.

Well see now… Why are you not running the USA Bryan? I guess people prefer a fool than a wise man. Maybe so many like Bush because he makes them seem superior in comparison! πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

Cheers all! I’m off to do battle with the dragons! If you don’t hear from me for, say… 48 hours… I lost! πŸ˜‰

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By: Bryan https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36559 Wed, 21 May 2008 20:26:06 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36559 LadyMin, you have revealed an age range, not an age, and given the current downward trend in puberty, menopause may soon be a problem for grad students.

While Nature produces a lot of interesting compounds for both good and ill, I have less confidences in chemistry. The incentives in the system are too heavily weighted towards quick to market, rather than extended testing, and too many of the tests and trials are corrupted by money.

I also have an odd body chemistry that interferes with many drugs. Morphine, for example, is totally ineffective. I have received it twice and it produced absolutely nothing – it didn’t reduce the pain, nor produce a high. It might as well have been water. I need 4 to 6 times as much Novocaine as is normal to deaden my mouth enough for dental work, and I can still feel the dentist working, but I can control my reaction.

Aspirin, on the other hand, works wonders, but the bleeding side effect proscribes it in many cases.

Everyone is different and there is no single solution.

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By: Steve Bates https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36557 Wed, 21 May 2008 19:29:21 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36557 “Oh no… now I’ve given away my age. :|”

LadyMinopause? 😈

I didn’t know about that application of SJW. I’ll tell Stella, but I think she’s past the worst of it by now, and glad of it. She only looks 30; she’s actually almost my age. Everyone assumes I’m cradle-robbing, but I’m not. I’m 59… but unlike Stella, I am part of (as the student demographer is said to have phrased it) “the population broken down by age and sex.” πŸ™‚

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By: LadyMin https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36556 Wed, 21 May 2008 17:39:09 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36556 Geez… I told LadyMin about it a few years ago! It’s good for menopause too. πŸ˜‰

Well, yes, you did tell me that. Works for the mood swings. Not for hot flashes though. I am determined not to take hormones.

Oh no… now I’ve given away my age. 😐

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By: Kryten42 https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36555 Wed, 21 May 2008 16:58:08 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36555 I should mention that I don’t think I am suffering from ‘clinical’ depression. As with most things, it’s very complicated. But basically, I am very tired and frustrated with life, the universe, and everything (to borrow a phrase). πŸ˜‰ Anyway, things have slowly been going my way for the past few months, but I’ve become too tired to easily make use of opportunities when they present themselves. So, I get frustrated. πŸ™‚ I’ve had one major problem fixed (well, almost fixed), vision. And I discovered I was diabetic and had hypertension (and other stuff) about a year ago, but am dealing with all that, and I seem to be on track there. I suppose my problem has mainly been… I often wonder why I bother these days. A neighbor wanted to fight me (and I mean fisticuffs) a couple weeks ago (because he is a young Armenian fool who was picking on a woman who is almost 60, with his wife and Uncle all yelling at her, and I said that if they didn’t knock it off, I’d call the police and arrest him. I have a valid Security License.) I managed to laugh at him even though what I wanted to do was pound him into the concrete. He wouldn’t have stood a chance. But I walked away. I was pleased later because I maintained control. πŸ™‚ But it was much more difficult than it should have been.

Anyway, thanks again. πŸ™‚

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By: Kryten42 https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36554 Wed, 21 May 2008 16:33:47 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36554 Hey! Thanks for the reminder about SJW Steve! DOH!! And I know about it too! *sigh* I’m tired these days (actually, exhausted is a better description). I have been using other herbs (mostly in herbal teas) which also help. πŸ™‚

Geez… I told LadyMin about it a few years ago! It’s good for menopause too. πŸ˜‰

I wonder if I can sell my head? As a comedian once quipped… ‘The only thing it’s good for is to hang a hat on!’ LOL

Thanks again. πŸ™‚

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By: Steve Bates https://whynow.dumka.us/2008/05/20/anger-management-2/comment-page-1/#comment-36552 Wed, 21 May 2008 16:22:59 +0000 http://whynow.dumka.us/?p=4204#comment-36552 Anger is frequently appropriate in this day and age. As long as we don’t get violent about it, venting at the bastards can be healthy for us and arguably for them. I’ve never managed to get to the point of arguing “he needed killin’,” but I’ve certainly justified myself in saying “he needed shoutin’ at.”

I agree one must control one’s own anger in a way that one can manage under even the worst circumstances, but depression is different from anger, and I find the herbal remedy St. John’s Wort to be very effective in controlling depression.

I am not quick to adopt such things, and I did my homework before taking this one. SJW has been around as a remedy for enough centuries that, if it were seriously harmful, we’d know about it (e.g., it does not appear to induce suicide as some of the meds from Big Pharma sometimes do). Its effects are gradual, over weeks, so there’s plenty of time to adjust quantities. And if you run out during the next Hurricane Ivan (Dog forbid!!), the worst that happens is that you gradually get depressed again. (That observation is from my personal experience, though not during a hurricane.) It’s not like alcohol; there’s no instant mood-elevating effect. But after a few weeks of daily use (recent studies suggest 4x300mg/day), I found that my only remaining depression was in response to actual depressing events, not the vague, nameless physiologically induced depression I experienced for decades. Oh, and it’s available over the counter. YMMV, but it works for me.

Please note, though, as I remarked in doggerel some years back, for full effect, you may need to take SJW along with an antidepresident [sic].

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